So yes, another blog to express my feelings, views and opinions on the things happening around us today. Definitely, some of these opinions may not be the most correct ones out there, but they represent the thoughts that I had at the time of posting. We change with the passing of time, so it would be hard for the 30 year old me to be held accountable for the thoughts I had at 16.
Today's topic: Feelings.
I think different people have different ways of handling their own feelings. Some prefer to shout it out loud, yelling atop a cliff to the people beneath that I AM FEELING LOW! GIVE ME ATTENTION! while others prefer to suppress that boiling emotion and present a stoic expression. Kudos to the ones who can suppress and yet feel well, for I know I don't. I do remember trying to pretend that everything was okay while feeding myself with positive quotes and words of encouragement when nothing was right. This ended up in a total disaster and I realised the catastrophe of things, got my shit back together and here I am today still kicking. It really helps to find someone to share your feelings because it lets you sort things out, and your brain's psych-immunity system will help to make things better (if it is functioning in the first place). All in all, bottling things up inside isn't that healthy as it may seem. If you're worrying that sharing your thoughts will burden someone, then look in the long run - who would be affected if you end up having a meltdown and bring negativity to everyone around you just because of that one time you didn't express your emotions to sort out your thoughts?
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